Dear Prospective Surrogate,

Thank you for considering joining us on the adventure of surrogacy. We can’t begin to put into words our appreciation and gratitude for even considering being a gestational carrier and helping us grow our family.

After years of trying unsuccessfully to have children, we were so blessed to have our first child through the gift of adoption, a beautiful baby boy whom we adopted in 2021. We have now been blessed with two more gifts (a girl and a boy) through the amazing experience of surrogacy. Both journeys were unique and we are so thankful that we have been able to grow our family with the help of an even wider extended family! We would love to be able to complete our family with one more perfect gift.   

We’re happy to share a little about us and our family now but we’re also open to answering any questions you have in the future as well! We began dating back in 2002 and really have been each other’s biggest supporters through all the ups and downs of advanced degrees, new jobs, moves, family losses, fertility challenges, travel and now parenthood. We love being parents and have so many adventures planned for our family! Every day watching our children develop their personalities and grow to be such sweet friends has been such an amazing joy.

We would love to develop a relationship with our future surrogate and be involved again in her pregnancy but we also understand she will have a life and family of her own. We’ve had so much appreciation and been so thankful from the very beginning of our first surrogacy journey but after seeing first hand what our surrogate has done for us, we are humbled and even more grateful for all that a surrogate gives. Thank you for your sacrifice and gift!

With Love,

J & D