Dear Prospective Surrogate,

We are J and M. And it is so incredible that you are considering helping us complete our family!

We live in Connecticut. I am a psychiatrist and M is a Cardiac Sonographer. M is a Canadian Citizen and I am a citizen of India. It has been a long time since I have been able to travel home but after 7 long years I am finally going back home to visit this year and I am very excited about it!

My husband and I met each other through a common friend in Toronto and got married in 2019. We had our daughter, H, in June 2024 after a long struggle with infertility. I had 3 losses and I was even losing normal embryos so we worked with a specialist out of Chicago and got our miracle little girl! I also have a son who is now 16 (I know time flies by so fast!) and he is just the best big brother! He loves his sister so much and I am so blessed and thankful to have them both.

Unfortunately I had a traumatic delivery at the time of my daughters’ birth. I had a severe postpartum hemorrhage and my uterus had to be taken out to save my life. I was in the ICU and could not see my daughter for a whole month. I am happy to be alive and be there for my daughter. Our daughter is our world. My husband and I have always wanted to have two kids but I cannot carry our second as I don’t have a uterus anymore. We have one more embryo which is genetically tested, normal, and good quality.

Knowing that I have the opportunity to become a mother again makes me so happy and it’s all because of generous people like you! I love my job as an addiction psychiatrist, and work full time. In my free time I like to travel and read books. M likes gardening and feeding the birds. The birds will wake us up at 6:30 in the morning if we aren’t already awake! It is so adorable watching my husband feed all his “pets”. We have several flowering houseplants in our garden in summers ranging from dahlia, hydrangeas, roses, lilies, tulips and phlox. We have bird feeders and a bird bath in our backyard. The birds, deer and squirrels have been frequenting our backyard for many years now. Feeding them gives us immense pleasure and keeps us connected to nature.

We are so thankful you took the opportunity to learn about us and hope you felt a connection. 

We cannot wait to meet you!

With love,

J + M